In A Relationship

[spennny]

You get talking to someone else, they flirt, your not happy on your current circumstances....................problem is she is married, and told you she aint happy

Would you...............

[67688c]

No I would not.
A few years ago a fellow female councilor used to constantly flirt with me when we lived in Lancashire, she made her interest extremely obvious, however my winding her up probably didn't help the situation, she actually became a bit of a nuisance in the end. Nice body too for her age, but I'm quite happily married and wish to remain so, In fact I used to openly tell my wife about her behavour. I've never been seriously tempted by any other woman in more than 40yrs of marriage, may be a bit old fashioned, but with me marriage is for life, and I'm fairly sure my wife feels the same.

No harm in looking, wouldn't be a man otherwise, when you stop looking then thats a sure sign you are getting old., I've done my share of light flirting but thats as far as I have gone. My choice! Its a question of trust. I made vows and I've never broken them.

[big rich]

no i wouldent as i have been **** on before and i know how it felt...not nice

[VauxVeteran]

Skirt up over her head at the xmas party time for you my boy, and don't forget to Red Rum her.....whip that ass


And remember you aren't the only person who can read this in the world, just incase you forgot your gf has fingers and can read forums.

[parapaul]

IMO if you're both in the same boat, and you're both up for it, then go for it. I know loads of people will say how cheating wrecks lives etc etc, but if you're already unhappy you may as well start to move on.

[lilangel]

it depends what do you want from it. i am having an affair with a married bloke and i would never do it again. however strong you are it will crack you at some point.

[willoftoon]

what she look like smell like etc etc is she worth it

[mark_w]

depends.
if you want out from your circumstances, seriously, and she is in the same boat, then might as well.
but if you're a bit peed off [like we all get now and again], and fancy a bit of a fling....well, you know the answer really, that's why you're asking here.
would you want it done to you?

[Ste]

If you are serious about this, then do it as SINGLE people. No-one gets hurt that way. Then you can both do it properly without anything getting in the way.

[Sean-2.2Direct]

Well said ste completely agree there is nothing worse than getting hurt when someone cheats on you