Bit of Advice

[martin_SRI]

I have just found out that my other half is pregant, so I am going be a dad

But the problem is that we are both are at university for the next 2 years due to finish in 2012, so dont have that much money but my other half has a decent job that pays not to bad. It is me that has the naugh job and dont pay that well.

And her mum wants her to get rid of it, without me having any say in the matter.

Any help appreciated, as I dont know what to do.

[paz_badboy4life]

it's just as much ur child as it is ur other halfs. her mum shouldn't be butting into ur business. it will be hard to have a kid while ur studying, but u wont regret it, many people have kids and still study snd still do very well and succeed.

[mark_647]

It has to be up to you two really, how do you feel about it ? Is it something you both want ?

[Jow20]

You 2 are the only people that shud make any decisions mate, its not upto mothers to be playing god with your 2's creation, when my lass got pregnant none of our family told us what to do as if you regret the decision u make thanks to others influencing you, it ends up been thier fault! U carnt help blaming em. Its a tough decision, i was only 19 at the time and my sons 4 now and ace! Main thing is do you plan to stay with the girl your with?? Hope ive helped mate and gud look.

[martin_SRI]

She wants to keep it we only have 2 years of study left she is in her final year, before she goes to train as a teacher. I would do whatever she wanted to as I am easy, but I would do whatever is right for us two.

[martin_SRI]

You 2 are the only people that shud make any decisions mate, its not upto mothers to be playing god with your 2's creation, when my lass got pregnant none of our family told us what to do as if you regret the decision u make thanks to others influencing you, it ends up been thier fault! U carnt help blaming em. Its a tough decision, i was only 19 at the time and my sons 4 now and ace! Main thing is do you plan to stay with the girl your with?? Hope ive helped mate and gud look.

My parents would be happy whatever we did, and I do plan to stay with her as I have been with her 3 n half years.

[John LE]

Just one question you have to ask yourself is are you ready? If you are then thats all that matters

[martin_SRI]

Well after thinking about all day me n my other half are ready just bad timing so tomorrow I find out when it will be due hopefully. Am happy that I am going to be a dad.

[rushy]

Well after thinking about all day me n my other half are ready just bad timing so tomorrow I find out when it will be due hopefully. Am happy that I am going to be a dad.

All the best mate, you've got some hard times ahead, but trust me, you wont swap them for anything.

[mark_647]

Again, you sound like you have made your choice so best of luck, all the best.