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    hi guys i know its nothing to do with a veccy just need to vent a little bit
    my mum phoned me last night and told me she didnt love my 5 week old son because she didnt know him well enough!!! the conversation was about her trying to come see us ( i live 150 miles away) and what to do with their great dane, as i have point blank refused for him to be in my house with my baby, her actually words was id never put callum in danger, i dont love him yet but still wouldnt put him in danger!
    i was gob smacked and hurt, i then rang my sister who hasnt even met my son yet and she said she loved him because he's my blood my son etc (my parents have met my son twice)
    and i know my parents only want to come down and visit the local area (they like the history)
    I've not forgiven for the last arguement yet and now im contenplating never speaking to them again, i only let them back in for the sake of callum (my son) and if they dont even love him whats the point.
    oh and another note the only thing they've bought for callum is a baby grow, while the other set of grandparents have spend litrally hundreds maybe thousands, i know its not about money, and i know this sounds shallow but its just how i feel

    all comment and advise welcome guys

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    I'd say give them the chance to get to know him, words may not have come out quite as she meant over the phone, and family comes first in all situations dude...

    Exhaust every avenue, then think about moving on without them...

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    Personally I would never let a dog near a baby, that is my choice and in no way meant to reflect on the dogs owner.

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    i'm gobsmacked mate i can't beleive your mum has said that its all about circumstance fella you can't help that you live far away.
    i work alot away from home but this does this mean i don't love my daughter????? i don't think so.

    Sounds like a bit of emotional blackmail to me mate sorry

    and on the dog issue i wouldn't let a dog near a baby either.

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    well ive told them that i never want to hear from them again. i gave her a chance to explain what she said and it was just the same i dont love him yet
    so im off to the gym to vent anger cheerio

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