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    Default My worst nightmare.

    Only the pet lovers will appreciate this but after i came home from the Ellesmere port show i found a note through our door.

    Baiscally it was from the woman in the flat downstairs saying that someone had knocked down my little Cat Chloe, earlier in the afternoon and left her on her doorstep. She knocked for us but we werent in and didnt know waht to do so left her there. She was obviously dead and nothing the woman could have done.

    So, i had to make that sickening effort to go and collect my baby and put her in the box i had dug out. Shes currently in our spare room, almost like she could just get up out of the box like nothing happened. I feel sick. I havent stopped crying on and off for the last few hours. Simple things like the fact she slept on my legs at night has me dreading going to bed, even though im exhuasted, as i know i'll wake up in the night, wonder where she is and then it will hit me all over again. I know its a greiving process, and she was 'only' a cat, but she was my little baby, only 3 years old and full of cheeky spirit but the grief feels so raw right now.

    I think we are going to take her to the vets in the morning to arrange getting her cremated.

    We ahve another cat, a boy, whose a few years older. Hes more independent but he knows something is wrong. Ive already told my wife that we are not getting another cat. Im too soft to have a cat. I worry too much about them and things like this happening.

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    sorry to hear that mate we have three cats (one in the thread on here)they are certainly all different dreading the day anything happens to any of them.

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    Ahh man, what to say? Such a bummer, I know what it's like to lose pets and it hurts like stink. You have my sympathies mate.

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    I feel for you mate. We are getting two kittens on Wednesday (7 weeks old).

    We once came home to find our cat dead in the house. I won't go into details, but he had gotten himself into a situation that he couldn't recover from.

    Take Care mate.

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    sorry to hear that Andy, not nice when family pets go
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    i know it will get easier and there are some people with an awful lot more to cope with than this, but it helps writing it down, if you know what i mean.

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    Hey Bro, its shi*tty i know, and it doesnt get "better" with time, you just get used to her not being around, but still miss her like hell when a wee memory comes flooding back in.


    Hope all goes well tomorrow

    All our love for you both

    Ian & Claire

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    She was not a cat !.... she was your friend, your pal some one who loved to sleep on your feet,She gave you three years of loving memory, grieve feel sad, But never forget the joy she gave you, You are only human, you are sincere. To an animal lover it is a most tragic loss, I have lost several cats and dogs over the years, but when you lose your "best friend" It is horrible, I lost my best mate " benji" a dog four years ago, I still think of him,so I know what you are going through,, it is easy for me to say it will get easier, I know but it will, you have fond memories of your cat, she is at peace now, she is safe.
    God bless.

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    oh thats a shame mate that sort of happened to me andy a few years back my cat was not knocked down but she had a fit and didn.t recover i was destraught aswell best thing i did was get another one and we still have her yet. i felt it helps to get over the loss

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    Andy, really sorry to hear this news. Such a tragic end to a good day

    Diana and I have a small 11 year old Jack Russell and he really is part of the family and certainly not just a dog.

    Sympathies to you at this time

    Steve & Diana

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