Sorry guys I need to vent some fury here!
Got back from work today, dad and brother have both had the day off, dad was out, but my brother came up to me and said that he and dad had been talking and all the crap they have up the loft, they want to sell it on e-bay before xmas. I said yeah, I wonder who is going to do that then? As it was said like they already expect I will do it.
When dad comes back, he mentions he has been speaking to my brother to which I say that he has already made it sound like everything has been decided and that is that. I tell dad there is no reason he can't do it, but he doesn't have an account is the reply. Well he can make one I tell him, at which point my dad tells me what an attitude I have and I don't want to do anything for anybody lately (this is 2 minutes after I go and put my car away in a garage around the corner after keeping him a space on our communal car park since I got back from work and I do this nearly every night for him or my brother).
Why is it one child always gets s*it on while the other gets away with everything. I mean he gets sandwiches made for him (I have done this complex task myself since I was about 10) and other general crap which I won't bore you all with, he's 23 for crying out loud, can't he start doing some things for himself.
Thank god my house is being built and I can move out soon!! I hate living at home as I only live with my dad and brother, I can't have an opinion with my dad, I can't stand up for myself like I tried to tonight because he goes in a mont for days on end! (I sound like a teenager I know, but living here makes me feel like one!!!)
I probably wouldn't have chosen this time in the country's current economic situation to buy a house, but I am 25 now and I just can't stand living with them any more!
Is anyone else in the same situation?