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    Default The grass isn't always greener.....

    Bit tricky to explain...

    Was seeing this girl for 4yrs & 10months and I ended it earlier this year, as in short, I thought the grass would be greener on the other side. But it wasn't.

    I've been out with a couple of girls since, but haven't felt 'it' and cannot get my ex out of my mind (who now, won't even look me in the eye/talk to me). I know its my own fault and cant expect anything else as I really upset her. She mentioned getting our own place and having a baby and I dunno if that has 'scared me off' so to speak, but now I think she was right for me and am seriously regretting what I have done.

    Think it sounds like a lost cause?

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    Sounds like you would have to do a lot of crawling and making up, plus a lot of trust to be earned back....if you want it then chase her mate.

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    Probably a lost cause.

    But, being as she's not even talking to you at the moment, you can hardly go any further downhill.

    So, might be worth trying to "engineer" some sort of chat where you tell her how you feel.

    1.) Worst case, she knees you in the b*lls, throws her drink over you, and kicks a dent in the side of your Vectra.
    2.) Best case, a forum wedding in a few months.

    Or, possibly, 1.) followed by 2.)

    Either way, you can't muck about. Be emotional (if poss), but not desperate. Will need major fireworks to succeed.

    Good Luck!

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    But not in a stalker-ish fashion....

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    Quote Originally Posted by VXR_DV View Post
    Worst case, she knees you in the b*lls, throws your drink over you, and kicks a dent in the side of your Vectra.
    I could take the first 2, but touch the car and I don't care who you are, would never have anything to do with you again!!

    As has been said mate, nothing to lose by chasing her, you'll only regret it if you don't give it a shot! Best of luck mate!

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    Been there, done that AND printed the soddin' T shirt m8. All i can say is that time is a great healer and you will find someone that makes you truly happy. I know it took a while for me but SWMBO isn't a bad 'un
    You might have lost her for good but then again you never know, women are strange creatures, she may forgive you in time Be warned though, she will NEVER forget

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    Quote Originally Posted by Caterman View Post
    Be warned though, she will NEVER forget
    Amen! so true.

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    Now I need a turbo to keep up!

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    just keep looking they are out there it may take a while but one will come along when u least expect it.

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    If you she won't talk to you face to face then write her a letter,that way you can tell her how you feel and maybe,just maybe it'll work out for you,but as others have said,women are very strange creatures and they never forget,so mean what you say and stay true to what you really feel,good luck m8........

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