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    Default Relationships - before a wedding!!

    Firstly i feel like jacking in.
    So kinda want agreeance or advise

    Been going out with the 'mrs' for 5 years in may, we have been engaged for the past 6 months.
    However last 12-18months i still have the sparkle for her but she is slowly driving me insane, im on depression tablets all be it not just because of my relationship.
    Since getting engaged i thought it would spur jo (mrs) on to get a job (had her own business but making nothing)and get us cracking with getting a house and getting wedding sorted.

    Well nothing has changed still no job, still no interest in a house to the point im now buying on my own.

    We dont really chat anymore money is an issue clearly i earn well, she doesnt earn a thing.

    Ive began to think that maybe it would be best for us to split. We seem to want different things i am more practical she is in the clouds.
    i.e wedding i want somewhere booked before i worry about decorating a bleeding table.
    House we need one before we think about the colour of the rug

    What do i do.
    Told her we need a chat tmrw evening as im well down

    Cheers

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    No - offense i'm no a relationship expert, but I think you have answered your own question

    "Told her we need a chat tmrw evening as im well down"

    Best of luck what ever you decide.

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    you gota give her a altermatum, say things gota change, tell her how you feel, whats making you feel like it, what you want to change, or your walking

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    Yeah but i often say things then think balls probably didnt help there.

    dont want to split up i spose but things have to change but i dont want to put ultimatiums or do i?

    tbh this is more type what i think than thinking before i type

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    i was with a girl for nearly two years in the end had to do a ultimatium, nothing changed so split up. now with anva one 9 months going great, and the other one beging me back. theres more out there it is hard. prob best not to do a ultimatuim yet tell her how you feel and what you want to change, give her a chance, a month if it same then give her a ultimatum

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    The crunch is it HAS to be sorted before you buy the house, or you know whats coming.

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    Well house is going to be on my own. She isnt in a position to move in for 1-2years yet same for the bleeding wedding.
    Just think i could do this on my own and sod it all off, please myself instead of others and worrying about others and be a bit selfish maybe

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    Don't get married if you aren't certain, once the band of gold goes on she's got you and there's no cheap way out, myself as I read it I'd walk tbh.

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    Yup i spose its a sort of cold feet im having, not even started to look around places but im not bothered either about looking
    House im happy to buy on my own
    Bit sad been together a long time but if it isnt meant to be then thats how it goes

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    Gregg, experience tells me to tell you, whoever you decide to spend your life with, make sure they are the type who will meet you half way on most things, a woman who won't work and dreams of spending what isn't hers is dodgy ground if you ask me, there are good girls out there, but this doesn't sound like one of them to this old head.

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