I have been in contact with person in question, they have a plausible excuse for why they haven't been on, and grille should be with me Monday.
I'm still a little sceptical as he said it was posted Thursday but now it has changed to Friday. There's a few other things that worry me but I have spoke with him on phone and he seems genuine enough.
I have deleted thread for time being
Thanks everyone for all your help
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