Need some advice guys

[spennny]

Airing my dirty washing , but right now i dont care ,
Caught the Mrs out tonight that she is having an affair , through her out , and kids are with me ,

Help lol, dunno what the f to do

[spennny]

lol, 10 Views , dont worry am not suicidal

[daddyjay]

sorry to hear that mate.. advice sorry don't know what to say but you got the kids..

[Johnsdutton]

Don't know what to say. If it was me I would be devastated after 34 years, but everyone reacts different.

[nicj]

Sorry to hear that! Its a crappy situation but only you know the answer to where to go from here. If its only just come to light now you need time to think. Its much harder when kids are involved. Best of luck x

[glenboy]

****** hell mate, don't know what to say, just keep a level head and keep the kids out of any arguments, i take it you don't want her back or did you kick her out because you can't forgive her?

[paulvectrac]

**** me sorry to here that paul hmmmm hard one how did u catch her out matey or did u just see her with someone how old are ya kids matey sorry again bud

[merikiito]

change the locks and leave all her stuff outside in bin bags cut into tiny shreds mixed with gloss paint so when she puts her hands in she gets covered. You could mix in some razor blades just to make sure she feels your pain......

Or you could thank god that she's someone else's problem now and you can get on with your life with the kids (still change the locks tho )

[spennny]

sorry to hear that mate.. advice sorry don't know what to say but you got the kids..

Funny thing is mate that its my step daughter and she didnt want to go with her mum when she left ?

Don't know what to say. If it was me I would be devastated after 34 years, but everyone reacts different.

Been with her now 14, married 2 , worst 2 years of my life , anyone thinking of getting married , its not all that bad

Sorry to hear that! Its a crappy situation but only you know the answer to where to go from here. If its only just cone to light now you need time to think. Its much harder when kids are involved. Best of luck x

Cheers Nicj, Had an idea, but caught her out, gave her the opportunity to tell me , but she constantly lied and i asked so many times but still lied till she cracked and told me

[spennny]

****** hell mate, don't know what to say, just keep a level head and keep the kids out of any arguments, i take it you don't want her back or did you kick her out because you can't forgive her?

No , thats us finished, she is out at the pub having a drink she informed me , no remorse or nothing and not wanting to chat

**** me sorry to here that paul hmmmm hard one how did u catch her out matey or did u just see her with someone how old are ya kids matey sorry again bud

I used the app "Track my Iphone"
I have a step daughter of 15 (hers and my boy is 10)

change the locks and leave all her stuff outside in bin bags cut into tiny shreds mixed with gloss paint so when she puts her hands in she gets covered. You could mix in some razor blades just to make sure she feels your pain......

Or you could thank god that she's someone else's problem now and you can get on with your life with the kids (still change the locks tho )

lol, off to B&Q in the morn mate