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    Do i have to catch them at it, cause this is something i just found out last night and i need to nip this in the bud immediatley

    Something happened at the skate park with Lewis and his mate , but it seems his mate is a bit more sensitive and has been up most of the night , Lewis is fine however its something thats not going to happen just because a 14 year old is on a power trip

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    My Son is only 2 so haven't had this experience yet but I'm sure it will happen, kids will be kids.

    I haven't got a clue how you would go about dealing with this so I'll keep an eye on this thread. I know one thing for sure though and thats that with all the do gooders, you'd have to be very careful what you do and say. Depending what action was taken it could swing round and you'd be on the wrong end potentially. It wasn't like this in the good old days that's for sure, only have to speak to my Dad \ Grandad and listen to some of their stories. Some of that wouldn't go-a-miss today I reckon!

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    There's not much you can do really. You can't hang around with Lewis and his mate down the skate park all day so you can catch the bully out.

    The Police won't be interested either.

    Do you know who the bully is? If so, have a word with his parents.

    The only real way to deal with bullies is to stand up to them. They only pick on kids who show weakness as they are an easy target.

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    Basically its a few of the boys on the BMX bikes who think they own the skate park, and not just singling Lewis out, there picking on a few of the younger ones with scooters , i think its started out as a bit of fun, but the older boys are taking it to far, Lewis came home in some state last night , filthy wise as they kept pushing him down the ramps , but for some reason didnt call me to tell me, which makes me think its started as fun ??

    The other lad his mate has been up a;ll night we learned, and he seems a bit more sensitive , Lewis mum has told me not to take him up the road today but i am going to, its a public place so he will use it as he wishes , i will hang back and stay there to see what happens if anything, then i think i will have a polite word in his ear , and i will be polite

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    ive had the same with my son paul and ive had to have a polite word with the bully and told him that he ever comes near my son again, i will be going straight to his parents and telling them what hes up too and then reporting it to the police as well not had any bother with the bully since.
    seems that bullying has never gone away
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    Lets hope they heed the warning. Sometimes it can make things worse.

    Hope it gets sorted

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    Quote Originally Posted by chrisvectra View Post
    ive had the same with my son paul and ive had to have a polite word with the bully and told him that he ever comes near my son again, i will be going straight to his parents and telling them what hes up too and then reporting it to the police as well not had any bother with the bully since.
    seems that bullying has never gone away
    That was going to be my polite word mate so i will go today and watch , just to see , i just dont want to " embarrass him " as he puts it storming up to the skate park lol

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    well as i said to my son would you rather be embarrassed or being kept on being bullied cos they wont stop until either you or i do something about it
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    One of my daughters now aged 14 was bullied for a short while in primary school, i bought her a set of sparring mits & pads & we did an hours session every night for a week or so...
    3 weeks later even the older boys were petrified of her

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    go down, shove a stick in his spokes..

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