Did it hit the fan or what two nights back. First our grandson is misbehaving big time and his mum got it in her head I was going to take him away from her - no thanks! Then it really kicked off.
Background: My ex had an affair with an alleged drug dealer, then left me for him, taking my daughter but leaving me with the two boys. She then married a convicted child molester and went to court for custody of the younger boy.
Court said it's all or none, so she asked for all three, and got them, over my objections - then all went missing for years. Turned up locally, left for dead, he'd been beating her and locking her in a cupboard. It broke her physically and mentally. We went above and beyond what we could manage to help, then she blanked us again and blocked all access to kids.
Fast forward 10+ years to the other night, my oldest lad, fresh out of a same sex relationship he apparently went into for the money had a 3 page tirade of what a rotten dad I was, finally accusing me of locking him in his bedroom then beating and sexually abusing him at age 15. There were no locks on any of the bedroom doors of the houses he was in with us, nor had he lived with us for 6 or 7 years then. This would have been around 2001, around when his stepdad proved to have been abusing his mum, and I've been disabled since 1997, but he reckons his mum, brother and sister all witnessed it and will give statements. I've reported it all to police, they say civil matter, get a good solicitor. I tried to get him to put up or shut up, but he says he doesn't have to prove what he knows happened.
My head hurts.