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    i need you ardvice guys im having bad thoughts all the time such as what will happen if this will happen if you know what i mean the worst thoughts im having is im terrified of loosing my little girl who is 2 who i love more than anything in this world i keep having bad thoughts and i keep saying if anything happened to her i would want to be with her im not saying im going to kill my self but if anything happened to her i think i would as i cant imagine life with out her and i feel its a no win situation as when things do get better I GET THOUGHTS OF THIS WILL END!! i just feel i dunno strange

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    it's crap when you feel like this but the best advice i can give you is get yourself along to your doctor and explain it all to him,, he will help or know someone that can

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    Quote Originally Posted by neverlandandy View Post
    it's crap when you feel like this but the best advice i can give you is get yourself along to your doctor and explain it all to him,, he will help or know someone that can

    im just scared if i go to see the doctor as things are not good with the ex and if anything ever happened to who can see the little one and when i know for a fact she would say somthing along the lines of HES NOT RIGHT IN THE HEAD look at his medical records ect i know who the court or who ever would choose

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    When my brother died last year I asked a lot of questions all what if. You can be a person who says "what if?" and the answer is you honestly do not know or you can be a person who says "I live for today and I'm going to make the best of it"

    Enjoy your time with your little girl, to be honest the weather does not help I can feel pretty jarred off in this weather but get outside get some excercise and you'll feel better. If not do what neverlandandy said and get yourself to the quacks and have a chat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dannyjpuk View Post
    im just scared if i go to see the doctor as things are not good with the ex and if anything ever happened to who can see the little one and when i know for a fact she would say somthing along the lines of HES NOT RIGHT IN THE HEAD look at his medical records ect i know who the court or who ever would choose
    Feeling down does not mean you are not right in the head otherwise we would all be mental!

    If you are going through a tough time you will feel down. Its life we have our ups and our downs I think everyone understands that and Jan is never a good month

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    mate .... seriously you need to get your head straight for you and your little girl = if your not fit to fight the battle then you will wonder how your going to cope - i've had a nervous breakdown and if your not careful thats where your going to end up and then you will be no good to man nor beast for months and months ... it takes a long time to crawl out of a deep dark hole - trust me you dont want to go there ..

    get yourself to the GP they can and WILL help ....it takes major Balls to come on here and say you think you have an issue and thats the first big step - so well done sometimes its easier talking to strangers - But when you DO go to the GP's dont let them fob you off .. take what they pescribe and it will take time but it will help

    the court are not privvy to Docs records without your signed consent so dont worry - be strong for your little girl and still be there for her

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    chin up mate, i was like this for a while a couple of years ago but seemed to just phase out of it, was really worried about dying and worried that i didnt have enough time left to do things even though im 26 :S

    go and see your doctors it could be that your maybe a bit depressed with everything going on, dont be ashamed by it and dont think that your not right in the head, depression is very common these days and ive been through it a couple of times,

    all i can say is chin up and your thoughts will change for the better just stay positive....!

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    Mental i ll health affects 'one in four' people..more common than you think. Im a psych nurse(23 yrs) and have expierienced work related depression/anxiety on a number of occassions.
    Considering your situation its not surprising your feeling as you do,time and the opportunity to talk it through with people will help you gain a differing perspective..youll allways have the love of your daughter,never doubt that. She needs you to be strong and in simple terms..to be her Dad.

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    I knida know how ya feel buddy, not exactly the same but not a million miles away. See my thread that i posted up in May. Listen to what the people on here say too, a lot of life experience between everyone. You dont have to deal with this alone

    http://www.vectra-c.com/forum/showthread.php?t=109636

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    Any problem you have (or even think you have) is a trip to the doctor. Dont delay it, get on the phone and make the appointment.

    Dont hang around waiting for an ailment to "go away" We all know our body's, and when something isnt right, then take action.

    Hope you get things sorted out mate.

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