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    My 24 year old female friend lost her partner last year in a road crash, she has a 6 year old girl and has now just started to see a 16 year old boy. She says she aint doing owt with him but he stay over with her every night and people have started talking, she just says she is lonely but im not so sure what do you people think?

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    Is she not allowed to feel lonely? I'd say they're both age of consent, and I'd keep my nose out.. Maybe the 16 year old cheers her up more than people who own age, maybe she's fed up of people treading on eggshells and repeatedly saying "oh Im so sad for you".. Young lad is probably a breath of fresh air for her, enabling her to live again.. Good on her..

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    Quote Originally Posted by nibblitz View Post
    Is she not allowed to feel lonely? I'd say they're both age of consent, and I'd keep my nose out.. Maybe the 16 year old cheers her up more than people who own age, maybe she's fed up of people treading on eggshells and repeatedly saying "oh Im so sad for you".. Young lad is probably a breath of fresh air for her, enabling her to live again.. Good on her..

    Mostly agree, but 16 is a bit iffy if anything is going on, 18 and nothing would likely be said. It is possible for male/female to have a non sexual relationship, does he live too far to travel late at night?
    Unless you have reason to think she can't be trusted with her and her daughter's life I'd stay out of it.

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    thought this was a vectra forum not claire rayners

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    Quote Originally Posted by hutch View Post
    thought this was a vectra forum not claire rayners

    Maybe one of them owns a Vec C

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    bet claire rayner doesnt

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    Quote Originally Posted by hutch View Post
    thought this was a vectra forum not claire rayners
    Quote Originally Posted by Grumpy1954 View Post
    Maybe one of them owns a Vec C
    Quote Originally Posted by hutch View Post
    bet claire rayner doesnt

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    wish I was 16 again.
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    Let people talk. Clearly they haven't got enough in their own lives to occupy them.

    Would it be really that bad if they were getting it together?

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    Look at it this way there is only 8 years between them, if he'd been 24 and her 32 would it sound as bad?

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    As John says, it's only the fact that they are young that is highlighting the age difference because some people look at it and say "She's half his age again!" but the older that they get, the less significant the same age gap becomes.

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