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    I'm in need of some advice guys.....

    Basically 3 months ago i broke up with my girlfriend of just over a year after she told me she didn't know if she wanted to be with me anymore. We worked with each other for a year before i asked her out and everything was fine for about 9 months, then i noticed she became kinda distant. Anyway, it was clear that her friends meant more than i did and i didn't like it which she said was one of the reasons the 'spark' had gone.

    She always seems to be in my head but i don't miss her if that makes sense, but i can't stop myself checking her facebook etc and it looks like she's seeing someone again. I'm always away from home with work so being single is a good thing i suppose, but i can't help feel like crap right now.....

    My mates said at the time we broke up that we weren't right for each other but she was my first at a lot of things. There's quite a lot of bad points that make me see i'm better off without her, but what can i do to get her out of my head? lol

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    easy find a better model

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    Stop stalking her , get over it and get on with your life!

    I know it sounds as if I'm being harsh, but why waste your time on a girl that don't want you?......It's Saturday night. Get showered n shaved and get out on the pull!! You'll have a much better time than putting posts on here and stalking her via facebook.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soulman View Post
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    Maybe you should remove her from your facebook to save temptation?

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    times the best healer mate, the best advise i could offer is dont go back to an ex, iv done it & ur playing with fire! there is plenty other women out there, i broke up with my ex of 3& a half years, i wasnt sure if it was the rite choice but all that feeling is ur missing the routine of havin a gf, im now happily engaged with my current better half & got a little one due in 6wks so there is hope out there! hope it helps!

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    It may be hard mate but time to move on imo. This is where you have two options, play the field for a while and enjoy yerself or find someone else and settle.

    If I were in the same situation as you i'd play the field for a bit, don't go looking for a relationship and it will find you

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    i'm not the kinda guy who can go out and just pull a girl lol

    sounds so pathetic that i keep looking at what she's getting up to, doesn't it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by T4M View Post
    i'm not the kinda guy who can go out and just pull a girl lol

    sounds so pathetic that i keep looking at what she's getting up to, doesn't it?

    Lol neither am I bud, just try it honestly, what have you got to lose?

    As for looking her up, it's obvious that it still hurts and you miss her but honestly you'll forget all about her when you meet someone else

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dai69 View Post
    Stop stalking her , get over it and get on with your life!

    I know it sounds as if I'm being harsh, but why waste your time on a girl that don't want you?......It's Saturday night. Get showered n shaved and get out on the pull!! You'll have a much better time than putting posts on here and stalking her via facebook.

    Wot you like you tart!, straight to the piont but well said! nothing like giving it to him straight, Well anyway do as your told! your 22 so get down the town and pull some fit birds and as many as you can!!, And delete that facebook!.

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    Quote Originally Posted by the-wizard View Post
    Wot you like you tart!, straight to the piont but well said! nothing like giving it to him straight, Well anyway do as your told! your 22 so get down the town and pull some fit birds and as many as you can!!, And delete that facebook!.
    Agreed

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