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    Default Nextdoor Neighbours

    Sorry - this is not car related - but I have to vent!! lol

    Our next door neighbours are renting and they are being evicted this coming Thu as there lease is up and also the landlords (our friends) dont like them, the tenants are rude and have broken many parts of there agrement - like have a cat when they are not supposed to have pets etc etc

    Anyway - they (the tenants) obviously know we are good friends with the landlords - and for some unknown reason have been very rude to my wife recently

    Well yesterday it got personal.. I was out at work in London - and the mother of the woman tenant shouted expletives to my wife saying she looked like our Dog...!!! to be honest it was probabily a good job I wasnt there as I dont know what I would have done!! things like that REALLY turn me.. This coupled with a few weeks ago when the woman next door was shouting at my wife F'ing and blinding, to say I am not happy is an understatement.

    So here is my dilema... There is NO WAY they are getting away with thinking that they can talk to my wife like that... Being a woman I am not going to go and have it out with her next door but I am inches away from having it out with her live in boyfriend.... The trouble is knowing what they are like, I am not sure how it will turn out if you know what I mean.

    I am not in the slightest worried about this as believe me when I can say I can handle myself!!. I have been kickboxing from the age of 10 and at 19 got my 2nd degree black!.. Problem with this as people may know - the potential of causing an 'issue' like this when you are actually trained in this mannor is VERY much frowned upon, and I dont want to get into any un-nessasary trouble.

    SO - do I let them get away with getting personal with my wife and say and do nothing? or do what I want to do and go and have a little word with the fella next door!.

    Tough one eh!

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    TBH if it were me i'd be just turning the cheek, you will soon be well rid of them... would of been a totally different matter if the boyfriend had been mouthing off mind

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    id leave it fella they will be gone in a few days and its not worth getting into trouble and having your cars vandalised or something like that you can always find out where they have gone and sort it out another time lol
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    agreed be the bigger man and walk away= you can smile to your hearts content next friday when yout still there and they are not

    is you suspect that a confrontation would result in a fight then what is the point of risking it .....

    yes you can handle yourself - but maybe so can he - always treat everyone you meet as an unknown quantity - theres nothing to say he doesnt "pop" back into the house and return with a knife a baseball bat a firearm ....need i go on

    the matter will be resolved in 7 days - vent it on here and then smile politely for 6 days mate


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    Quote Originally Posted by chrisvectra View Post
    id leave it fella they will be gone in a few days and its not worth getting into trouble and having your cars vandalised or something like that you can always find out where they have gone and sort it out another time lol
    Mate - I tell you I was that close to 'sorting' it properly yesterday eve when I got back!! I really havent felt like that for YEARS!... As said I have to be a little careful tho.. When I was training fully (dont anymore as work has taken all my time - lol) we used to hear all the time of Police REALLy coming down hard on trained people fighting outside the gym... understandable too.. When I tought 12 yr olds class - we used to drum it into them that it was disapline and gym first!...

    You are right of course - leave it be.. and I prob will... just as long as they dont say anything when I am here!!

    Of course P doesnt know quite how close I was as there is no way she would want me to go down that road...

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    such a hard choice, to be honest id just wish the thurs along and try not to face them. hard i know but why stoop to there foul mouth level, as dh.dti said turn other cheek otherwise you prob will be behind bars, as you know the justice in this country stinks!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by deztroyer View Post

    yes you can handle yourself - but maybe so can he - always treat everyone you meet as an unknown quantity - theres nothing to say he doesnt "pop" back into the house and return with a knife a baseball bat a firearm ....need i go on
    I didnt use to teach you mate did I - that was my first rule we used to drum into people...lol...

    Of course you are all correct and thats is what I will do... its just when its the ones you love - you will almost do anything!.

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    as said above. Rise above it mate. They are low life and quite obviously from the murky bottom of the gene pool. You on the other hand are a decent bloke with a nice family and friends, with a good job etc. Don't drop to their level. You know what will happen, it'll be you in front of the desk sergeant and not him. Not worth it mate.
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    theres no point getting into trouble over muppets like that fella and p would get upset and theres the kids to think about as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AntSSSS View Post
    I didnt use to teach you mate did I - that was my first rule we used to drum into people...lol...

    Of course you are all correct and thats is what I will do... its just when its the ones you love - you will almost do anything!.
    no mate

    ex plod so just applying the same rules that i live by

    and glad that the venting on here helps

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